When a woman thinks about how to survive, there's no time for love.
The brain switches to fighter mode: planning, controlling, coping.
Love, on the other hand, is about relaxation and trust.
But when you're your own protector and support, the heart gradually closes.
And here's the paradox: the more energy you spend on earning, the less you have left for love.
Not because you don't want it, but because your resources are spent on survival, not on tenderness.